this is a list of my favorite queer & trans-friendly resources

if this is an emergency, please contact 911.

If you are in crisis, or you want to talk to someone who will help, please consider contacting the Trevor Project phone or text line:

The Trevor Project

Gender-Affirming Care & Virtual Healthcare everywhere in the US: folxhealth.com

🌈 LGBTQIA+ dedicated team, offering care for adults nationwide
💊 Stress-free medication management
✅ Get care with or without insurance

Go to Folx

Gender-Affirming Care in New York City

Arrive Therapy: of and for trans & LGBT+ folks Available virtually in all 50 states

Astrology

fat, queer, trans, poly & very educated intersectional activist

The Radiant Unknown: Linden F. Pierce (they/them)

Debunking anti-fat, anti-queer, anti-disabled, and anti-trans pseudoscience with two awesome queers:

Maintenance Phase Podcast

More fat-activist, intersectional learning resources:

"You Just Need To Lose Weight" and 19 Other Myths About Fat People - by Aubrey Gordon
What We Don't Talk About When We Talk About Fat - by Aubrey Gordon
Hunger: A Memoir of My Body - by Roxane Gay
Your Body is Not an Apology - by Sonya Renee Taylor
You Have the Right to Remain Fat - by Virgie Tovar
Tell Me I'm Fat - This American Life Ep. 589
Shrill - Hulu Series

Gender-Affirming Care, Mental & Sexual Healthcare in Santa Fe, New Mexico

Axces Healthcare (English, Spanish, French)
Southwest Care Pharmacy - will mail Rxs to you for free (English, Spanish)
The Mountain Center - Santa Fe NM
The Sky Center - Santa Fe NM

Going No-Contact Resources

Dr. Ana: psychology educator and fiction author with a Doctorate in Clinical Psychology.

Stay Informed AND Sane

Under the Desk News with V Spehar
Heather Cox Richardson - Letters from an American
Maintenance Phase Podcast
Miniminuteman
Sad Boys Pod

Gender Activists & Resources

ALOK - author, activist, comedian, poet
The Intentional Man Project and Camp Lost Boys (for trans men)
The Queer Collective Podcast
Edgar Fabian Frias
New Guy Tries: trans man Ash Perez explores traditionally masculine experiences

Self Care n’ Chill

(also see “my nonfiction bookshelf” and fiction authors below

Dropout TV - most diverse, hysterical, feel-good videos ever
Try Guys: Comedy featuring a diverse extended cast!
Watcher: Comedy & Ghost Stuff with diverse cast
Qi Gong: Free Youtube Videos with Mark Tanaka
Casual Geographic
Gabi Belle
Eddy Burback
Drew Gooden

Astrologers:

The Radiant Unknown - Linden F. Pierce (they/them)
Sisterbride - Blair Bogan (she/they)

Tattoo Artists:

Malia Hee at Shrine in Santa Fe (she/they) - did my chest piece
Talia Migliaccio - hand-poke tattoo (did my hands)

Legal Help:

New Mexico Justice Law

Witchcraft Resources:

Theyfriend Candles, Malas, and Apparel (me!)
Amanda Yates Garcia (she/her) - the Oracle of L.A.
Edgar Fabian Frias
Circe Academy of Queer Trans Witchcraft
Maria Minnis (she/her)
Witch Wave Podcast
Between the Worlds Podcast

My Bookshelf: Nonfiction

Feeding Your Demons - Tsultrim Allione
Educated - Tara Westover
Me and White Supremacy - Layla F. Saad

My Bookshelf: Nonfiction Cont’d

What My Bones Know: A Memoir of Healing from Complex Trauma by Stephanie Foo
What We Don't Talk About When We Talk About Fat - Aubrey Gordon
"You Just Need to Lose Weight" and 19 Other Myths About Fat People - Aubrey Gordon
Initiated: Memoir of a Witch - Amanda Yates Garcia
Hunger: A Memoir of My Body - Roxane Gay
You Have The Right To Remain Fat - Virgie Tovar
I'm Glad My Mom Died - Jennette McCurdy
Sociopath: A Memoir - Patric Gagne PhD
Anything written by Nedra Glover Tawwab
Tarot for the Hard Work - Maria Minnis

Favorite Fiction Authors:

Samantha Allen
Alison Bechdel
Sandra Cisneros
Akwaeke Emezi

Read Banned Books!!!

Janet Fitch
William Golding
Miranda July
Barbara Kingsolver
Maia Kobabe
Taisia Kitaiskaia
Never Whistle At Night: An Indigenous Dark Fiction Anthology
Yoko Ogawa
George Orwell
Ruth Ozeki
Jeanne Thornton
Ocean Vuong